MAKING A RELATIONSHIP WORK...

Love is ageless... Any love that fades is not real and any love that dwindles is not strong..

Don't be deceived, be calm but smart enough to know whom you are dating...

If you refuse to face reality, you will end up in a dead relationship.

How to make your relationship work :

•  First, you must realize that one person do not keep a relationship. It is a collective effort in communication, attention, care and aspirations.

• The most welcome response to LOVE is Reciprocation. If you can't reciprocate that feeling, love, attention, time, passion, you will eliminate  "Value"  and "happiness" in your relationship.

•  Say what you want in a relationship; procrastination, won't make it work.. Time is too expensive in love..

•  Relationship is a sickler, love is the doctor, happiness is its drugs.. If your love is fake, it won't work..

• Making relationship work entails self control and discipline. Without it, you are just dating for fun..

•  Remove "Trust" from any relationship and  you are making a mockery of yourselves. To make it work, you MUST trust your partner.

•  Learn to admit your fault and shut up when you are right... Relationship is not a law Court..

•  Don't say you won't talk about it. No! Learn to listen and hear him/her out.. It is a place of correction not condemnation.

• There is nothing more destructive in a relationship than selfishness.. Change the language from " I" to " We"....

• Don't date for merriment; date for marriage. It will guide and guard your intention to your destination.

•  It is good to talk about marriage in your relationship, but don't promise when you're not ready...

• If your Ex is still in the picture, you won't move forward, let your present have your attention...

Note : Look beyond what you can gain and focus on how to make it work for marriage..

I hope this helps...

GodlyDiva