DATING ON SOCIAL MEDIA

Many people keep asking " Can you marry or date someone you met on social media?

My dear,  it is not the location that matters but the allocation.. Love can be found anywhere..

Yes, it is true that the social media has different categories of people as regards relationships :

1. Sex seekers...
2. Heartbreakers..
3. Players
4. Pretenders...
5. Fun seekers
6. Love seekers...

But, there is nothing wrong in meeting and trying to know someone you met on social media. Also, before falling in love with someone you met on social media, there is a need to consider the following in other to avoid a heartbreak :

1. You MUST know the person OUTSIDE SOCIAL MEDIA.
Note that, no matter how long you have been chatting online, you are not dating yet until you see him/her.

2.  Do not talk about marriage until you meet in person...

3.  Sending your NUDE is a big NO! It doesn't guarantee intimacy.

4.  Don't be deceived; many 'singles' on social media, aremarried outside social media.
Therefore, investigate his/ her status..

5.  Involve a counsellor, if there is an issue of divorce before you fall in love..

6. Meeting in a Hotel room can be risky and it is against good intention.. Be wise...

7. Don't meet his/her parents before meeting him/her. You must be satisfied with what you saw before taking the next step.

8.  Be mindful of the gifts and money you receive, it may be used against you in future..

9.  Making Video calls doesn't make his/her intentions real. Some may just to satisfy lust at that moment...

10.  Be Mindful of promises, it can keep you stagnate.

11. 90% of the lives  of people on social media is fake... packaging things....
Don't waste your time on " I love you baby". Be careful...

12.  When you expose your body on social media, you only attract fun and sex seekers..

13. Not everyone will find their partners/soul mate in the same place and in the same way but be careful not to get used..  

Above all, seek God and His Counsel over him/her.... You won't Miss It..